(Korton stresses the
importance of being eloquent when teaching because
people will know us from the way we speak better
than anything else. Doing so is designed to help
those students who are not at our level to a level
closer to our own.)
Korton:
greetings Russ, let us
address communication and
the necessary of the
linguistics involved, that
it is as I have always
stated important to be
eloquent. Slurring of speech
is unacceptable. I know you
do not do this but it is
important for all people to
understand that it is
important to communicate
crisply and clearly. Now
when communicating, you
communicate as direct as
possible. Analogies are a
good tool to use. When you
talk, it is a learning
experience for other people
on what you are saying.
People know more about you
by the way that you
communicate, by the way that
you manipulate your vocal
cords to communicate. For
example, if somebody speaks
sloppily, uses a lot of
expletives and slang, what
does this tell us? This
tells us that they are
sloppy in their
communication, they are
probably uneducated, they
probably do not grasp fully
what is trying to be
explained to them. It is
fine to use slang when
talking with your friends
and associates but, on a
professional level, you
cannot communicate and say
you know. You have to
explain why they should
know. It has been brought to
my attention that when you
communicate with somebody
explaining something, you
will use occasionally slang
and occasionally the phrase
that I hate, you know. This
should not be taken for
granted that somebody knows.
If they know, they will let
you know because even if
they do know and they do not
interrupt, they may learn
something. So, to portray
yourself as an eloquent
speaker tells more about you
than just your physical
appearance. It tells them
that you are educated, you
are considerate, you are
intelligent. All these
things are important when
you communicate. It is
necessary to give the air as
a communicator that you know
what you are talking about,
that you are easy to
understand and you are
intelligent. Questions.
Russ: yes, one thing I have
that goes against that last
statement is that oftentimes
I’ll find myself affecting
other people’s form of
communication when I’m
talking to them. For
example, someone using slang
or expletives. I do that on
purpose generally because it
takes me to a level where
they can understand me
better and accept what I’m
saying when I’m teaching
instead of going and
thinking that I am above
them in that situation.
Korton: yes, that is
acceptable to lower yourself
to their level but, what are
you trying to do? You’re
trying to bring them up to a
higher level.
Russ: right.
Korton: you have to get them
from using the expletives
and the slang. It is easier
for them to be understood by
other people if you do so.
As a teacher, your purpose
is to increase the
intelligence of the people.
If they’re constantly using
expletives and slang, then
it is more difficult for
people to understand them
out of their peer group. The
language that you speak,
English, has certain
protocols that are used by
well-speaking individuals
that everybody understands.
You can understand me
clearly and crisply as I
communicate. Other people
can understand me clearly
and crisply as I
communicate. Expletives have
their place, slang has its
place but when you are
teaching, the thing that you
are trying to do is to
increase the intelligence
and bring the person up to a
higher level if they are of
less intelligence. If they
are of greater intelligence
and have not learned to
speak correctly, they will
understand that by the way
that you are communicating
that it is logical and
easier to understand so that
they will start to mimic.
Now it is not a putdown when
you do that. When you are
dealing with somebody that
uses a lot of slang and
expletives, it is fine to
use them yourself a lot like
they would to start off with
but as you talk and
communicate with them, you
decrease and decrease and
decrease until you are not
using any and they will do
likewise, they will mimic
you. More questions.
Russ: yes, now once you
start doing that with that
person, won’t that then feed
off of them into their peer
group?
Korton: correct.
Russ: and basically it’s a
trickle-down effect from
there.
Korton: correct, gradually
and slowly.
Russ: I see.
Korton: so it is not one
person you are communicating
with.
Russ: right. So it's best to
talk to these people as
often as you can once you
start the teaching
process…..
Korton: correct.
Russ: to keep that teaching
process going and then bring
in the others of their peer
group into it and seeing the
same effect take place
there.
Korton: correct.
Russ: I see, very
understandable……okay.
Korton: so it is a useful
tool when you communicate.
You have to first of all get
their interest, communicate
with them on a level that
they understand and then
pull them up.
Russ: uh-huh.
Korton: more questions.
Russ: okay, how do you
encourage them once they get
to that point to start using
more educated phrases? Is it
just your use of them sure,
but won't they see
themselves as being outcast
from their group at that
point?
Korton: no they won’t. If
their friends are good
friends, their friends will
accept them as they are. If
not, they will continue to
use that form of
communication with their
peer group. When interacting
with people outside of their
peer group, they will use
what they have learned.
Russ: I see, so sooner or
later their friends might
start changing and their
peer group might change.
Korton: correct.
Russ: I understand.
Korton: take for example
when you first arrived here.
You were hanging around with
people that I believe you
would call lowlifes?
Russ: party animals.
Korton: party animals. Do
you hang around with that
group now?
Russ: oh no.
Korton: since you have
become more eloquent or have
become re-eloquent, you have
found that that group of
individuals is
frustrating…..
Russ: yes.
Korton: irritating......
Russ: uh-huh.
Korton: so therefore you
have grown, you have moved
to a new peer group. You
still interact with some of
that other peer group and
they have changed also.
Russ: hmm, so this is also
feeds over into the Internet
where I’m using the webpage
in that same manner?
Korton: correct.
Russ: okay, so a grade point
average on my eloquence in
the webpage?
Korton: passable.
Russ: thank you, from you
that’s a compliment.
Korton: thank you.
Russ: thank you.
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