(Kiri gives a
dissertation on the dangers of coercing someone
to a point where it generates adrenaline
overload. She gets in to a very detailed talk
about adrenaline and its use. She also gives an
impromptu demonstration of coercing a kitten and
a morals explanation.)
Kiri:
okay, let us address a topic near
and dear to my heart.
Russ: okay.
Kiri: coercion.
Russ: good.
Kiri: uh-huh.
Russ: we haven't done coercion in
a while.
Kiri: okay, coercion by design.
Okay let us take a little
something. Okay you have a group
of felines all sitting around and
there's one cute little
feline....I was listening. And you
want that feline to come. The
trick is to make eye contact, eye
to eye. You look into its eyes and
it looks into yours, to make the
appropriate thoughts and actions
friendly and open. Now you have to
understand a little bit of the
mentality of the feline and the
fact that it doesn't trust anybody
because its mother doesn't trust
anybody. It wants to, it's
inquisitive, it will come up and
sniff you, it will overcome so you
have to use an incentive to
achieve the goal. And by
interacting in a positive mental
thought pattern, you can cause the
feline to come. It may not come
all the way up because the anxiety
is there within the feline that it
doesn't trust anybody except for
its mother. So it overrides the
call from your mind to come to
you. The fear and the adrenaline
takes over and it runs. Now
adrenaline and dealing with
adrenaline rushes, leading up to
this, is something that can be
harmful both to the coercer and
the coercee. Okay now, coercion
has to be done carefully as I've
stated frequently in the past.
What transpires is that you are
giving commands to the person that
has to override their thoughts and
their behaviors. Now it has to be
done subtly but let us say that
you coerce a little heavy-handed
and the person is totally within
your control, they have no free
will and you have them like a
puppet on the string and a
situation occurs that causes you
to fear for their safety or your
own safety. Let us say you're
coercing somebody to get somewhere
in a hurry and you're sitting in
the passenger seat and you've got
them doing the foot to the metal
routine. And they're going as fast
as they can through through
traffic and all of a sudden the
light turns red and they almost
smash into the back of a vehicle.
You have adrenaline overload
because the situation that you put
yourself in by coercing them has
endangered your life and their
life. You lose control of their
mind and suddenly they have free
will of their own and they suffer
from fear going, "oh my God, what
happened? Why was I driving so
fast, I almost killed us?" And
they do the whole entire guilt
trip but because you were coercing
them and you know what they're
probably thinking, it flashes back
on you even worse. So when you
coerce and you coerce in a way
that endangers, you're opening
yourself up to all sorts of
harmful possibilities to do with
adrenaline overload and all the
harmful effects that adrenaline
overloads can do. The thing about
adrenaline is that it sits around
in the body for months on end, you
never need it and all of a sudden
you need it and it's old and it's
stale and it tastes funny and it
makes you feel sick. Don't like
adrenaline overloads. Now, if you
put somebody in a situation and
you're coercing them and you're
not concerned about their safety
and you've got no report with them
and they suffer with an adrenaline
overload without you going through
the adrenaline overload that you
haven't put yourself in the
situation, you've put them in the
situation but you've got nothing
to do with it except for your
coercing. That sounds a little
convoluted and complicated doesn't
it?
Russ: I wouldn't type it.
Kiri: but anyway, putting the
person in the situation where the
adrenaline overload occurs for
them only, it doesn't because an
adrenaline overload will sever the
connection. Now depending on how
tight the connection is depends on
how well you're controlling the
person. Now the break in the
connection with an adrenaline
overload means that 50% of their
adrenaline goes flying into your
body triggering your own
adrenaline which makes the fact
that instead of having a 100%
adrenaline that is being released,
you're having a 150% adrenaline.
So, what's the moral of this
little dissertation? Well, it's
don't put somebody in an
adrenaline overload situation that
could happen, it's not good.
Unfortunately sometimes you have
to. You have to coerce somebody
that is very well suited to do
something, a particular task that
they don't want to do but it's for
the benefit of themselves and
other people and yourselves. Okay,
any questions?
Russ: I have one that is unrelated
to that, well it's related but in
a different field, it's a healing
question.
Kiri: okay.
Russ: I'm not sure if you can
answer it.
Kiri: but first of all Ann, do you
have a question?
Ann: no.
Kiri: okay.
Ann: not right now thank you.
Russ: yeah, she shook her head no
so that's why I was asking.
Kiri: sorry, I was more concerned
with getting liquid down Mark's
throat as it sounds like he's been
gargling with glass again.
Russ: the adrenaline overload
caused by the stale adrenaline.
Kiri: uh-huh.
Russ: is it a little bit healthier
then to release that adrenaline in
some safe format than letting it
just build up like that?
Kiri: it's always useful to use
adrenaline. After all, sitting
around in the body for months on
end festering isn't good is it?
Ann: how can you use it?
Russ: yeah that's what I'm saying.
Because I'm......
Kiri: oh how can you use it?
Russ: in my working two jobs right
now, I'm not really using a lot of
adrenaline.
Ann: yeah.
Kiri: you think so?
Russ: not a lot that I can think
of.
Kiri: adrenaline comes in many,
many different forms and can be
released in many, many different
ways. Being a coercer and having
to learn about adrenaline
overloads, you learn a little bit
about the biology of adrenaline.
Russ: okay.
Kiri: it can come in the
excitement of a new project.
You're building a new program or a
new computer for somebody that
you've never built before. You're
a little apprehensive and a little
nervous but there again you're
also looking forward to it
correct?
Russ: uh-huh.
Kiri: adrenaline's being released
just little bit, a little at a
time to keep the excitement there.
Also, looking forward to doing
something for the first time or
doing something that you like to
do......could take my favorite
past time but but no, that would
be too long-winded (Ann chuckles).
The release of adrenaline comes in
many different ways. It can be
released in the anticipation of
something, waiting for something,
something suddenly happening. It
can even be released through
laughter. Laughing uproariously
will trigger adrenaline to be
released and adrenaline causes the
heart to beat faster. So you see,
adrenaline can be released in
many, many different ways.
Russ: I see. So you could set up
some daily thing that you could do
that would release a lot of it at
once or just those little things
all day will release the same
amount then?
Kiri: it's better to be little
bits at a time because supposing
you need a big adrenaline rush?
Russ: it won't be there.
Kiri: exactly, it's been all used
up but if you use a little bit
here a little bit there, it's
constantly replacing itself and
refreshing itself. Has anybody
ever had an experience of a sudden
adrenaline rush followed by
another adrenaline rush followed
by another adrenaline rush?
Russ: oh yeah, all the time when I
used to fish, it happened a lot.
Kiri: and what happened towards
the end?
Russ: well you get pretty tired.
Kiri: uh-huh.
Ann: indeed.
Kiri: uh-huh and there is no more
adrenaline left and therefore your
reactions which are supposed to be
heightened and sharpened by
adrenaline are slowed down because
there isn't any adrenaline.
Russ: hmmm.
Kiri: so to release it all at once
is only a if you need to but a
little at a time is the best way.
And it doesn't have to be a daily
thing. The joke about it sitting
around and festering in your body
is a joke, it's there for a reason
and it is used to sitting around.
Over thousands of years it has
evolved in a way that it will
survive not be used for months on
end.
Russ: oh I see. Well thank you
Kiri, that's a good way to answer
that question.
Kiri: uh-huh.
Russ: excellent.
Ann: yeah, I agree.
Kiri: any questions?
Russ: I'm trying to think of
something in the coercion
department. Now, when you're
working with someone in coercion,
basically........
Kiri: uh-huh.
Russ: let's say the cat there
which we started off on as far as
the adrenaline overload of the
cat.
Kiri: uh-huh.
Russ: okay you're in an essence of
working through the adrenaline of
that cat to get it to do what
you'd like it to do.
Kiri: watch.
Russ: oh there's a kitten.
(Kiri then goes about proceeding
to coerce the kitten)
Kiri: now she wouldn't have come
into the room unless she was
called. She's now sitting quite
happily and comfortably. Do you
want me to get her to come closer?
(Kiri then tries to get the kitten
to come closer)
Kiri: no, she's having a real
anxiety attack.
Russ: she's found her limit.
Kiri: uh-huh.
Russ: and she won't go beyond that
limit because anything beyond that
limit would push her adrenaline
and her fear up another notch.
Kiri: yeah, uh-huh and it would
scare the living daylights out of
the cat and there could be the
opportunity of flash over to me.
Russ: right.
Kiri: which in this situation
would flash through me back into
Mark's body. So I have not only
the added responsibility of being
responsible for the feline's
adrenaline state, but also my own
and Mark's.
Russ: hmm, a lot to be aware of
and be responsible for.
Ann: uh-huh.
Kiri: so it is a big
responsibility.
Russ: well she likes the company .
Kiri: uh-huh.
Russ: I think.
Ann: uh-huh.
Russ: and the human contact which
her mom doesn't........ it's not
real loving, but at the same time
she's real scared of that.
Ann: uh-huh.
Russ: but as you remember we had
all three cats, Gandalf, Edmund
and...
Kiri: uh-huh, see she's gone now.
Ann: uh-huh.
Kiri: I started calling her
vocally.
Ann: uh-huh.
Kiri: doing the cat thing and lost
the coercive link. She's just
outside, she'll come back in but
it will give her the feeling of
welcome now that she will do it
more, that she will come in and
hopefully it will set things in
motion that will give the feline
the opportunity to interact more
and get more affection in return.
When editing this, you might want
to put in what transpired.
Russ: right.
Kiri: the feline........
Russ: the wild kitty comes closer
kind of thing.
Kiri: uh-huh yeah. Should be an
easy recollection thing.
Ann: yeah.
Kiri: uh-huh.
Russ: yeah. Long blank spot on the
tape.
Kiri: yeah, long blank spot is
coercion of a feline. But there
are certain rules that are
necessary to obey in connection
with coercion. Not endangering
somebody, only for positive, never
for self-gratification, never for
self-advancement however, there
are certain little clauses. For
example, personal advancement. Let
us say, and I do love this
analogy, that you're going for a
job and you have two children and
you need that job and you go there
and you're dressed up as best as
you can and you really want the
job. Is it right or wrong to
coerce the person into giving you
the job or considering you more
over somebody else? Is it right or
wrong?
Ann: if you have the right
qualifications and stuff for the
job it would be right.
Kiri: qualifications are
irrelevant.
Ann: okay.
Kiri: from a moral standpoint.
Ann: if you're going to be able to
get the job with....
Kiri: I see where you're coming.
Ann: yeah.
Kiri: yeah. You are correct in
saying that it is the right thing
to do. The way that I would answer
it is that yes, it is right
because you need the job to take
care of your children. So you're
not doing it for yourself even
though you are benefiting
initially by getting the job, your
children are benefiting. And of
course you'd want to do the best
job that you can so that you can
advance within the company and
continue working at that job.
Ann: right.
Kiri: so your answer is yes
correct and my answer is correct
and it's actually putting those
two answers together would be the
correct answer.
Ann: okay.
Russ: (closes door) getting a
little cold in here.
Kiri: oh, so I can't give any more
demonstrations?
Russ: no, well we had the main
demonstration which is all we
really need.
Kiri: uh-huh. I do like to show
off my coercion from time to time.
Any questions? Okay, what do I do?
I'm an engineer as you probably
read in the bios and I also do
coercion as you just witnessed.
Ann: uh-huh.
Kiri: those are my fields of
expertise.
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